Comments on: Punishment ain’t hot. http://www.lessonslearned.us/index.php/2010/02/02/punishment-aint-hot/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 16:40:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Rayne http://www.lessonslearned.us/index.php/2010/02/02/punishment-aint-hot/comment-page-1/#comment-1268 Rayne Tue, 16 Feb 2010 16:36:48 +0000 http://www.lessonslearned.us/?p=1782#comment-1268 I totally get where you're coming from here and completely agree. While there is punishment in our dynamic, it's reserved for behavior modification... not play time. I totally get where you’re coming from here and completely agree. While there is punishment in our dynamic, it’s reserved for behavior modification… not play time.

]]> By: John http://www.lessonslearned.us/index.php/2010/02/02/punishment-aint-hot/comment-page-1/#comment-1236 John Wed, 03 Feb 2010 00:44:47 +0000 http://www.lessonslearned.us/?p=1782#comment-1236 That is the true difference between being owned and playing a scene. I can torment my slave to my hearts content and she is not bad. I have punished her a few times in three years though. In each one she modified her behavior afterwards. I can tell you that there is a huge difference in my intent and the outcome I seek when I was punishing. It revolved around her health and taking care of herself. I gave her a pussy whipping that she cringes whenever she thinks about to this day. It is the mental and emotional differences. It is not hot for the Dom either. I much rather just torment her for my pleasure. That is the true difference between being owned and playing a scene. I can torment my slave to my hearts content and she is not bad. I have punished her a few times in three years though. In each one she modified her behavior afterwards. I can tell you that there is a huge difference in my intent and the outcome I seek when I was punishing. It revolved around her health and taking care of herself. I gave her a pussy whipping that she cringes whenever she thinks about to this day. It is the mental and emotional differences. It is not hot for the Dom either. I much rather just torment her for my pleasure.

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