Comments on: What’s love got to do with it?

By: sirduke

sirduke — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 21:33:13 +0000

Nice going leesa it is your life. I ve been following you for over 10 yrs and I ve seen you thinking this wasn t what you wanted from time to time. You always wantit back after a short time so, I know it is what you want. btw you haven t looked or talked happer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

have fun life is to short not to ride the wild ride.

By: Nilla

Nilla — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 18:09:13 +0000

Hey Leesa and Phrank,

(stands proudly at attention) I am a VANILLA. but…not just any vanilla.

Nope, I am a vanilla cloud with kink lining (laughs). I don’t lead a kink life, cant change what life I’m living, which was kinda kinky back in the day (lesbians, married?! gasp!). Been in this relationship 31 years, married since it was legal 5 years ago. Wife is very vanilla. I am not and haven’t shared my kink w/her.

All of the above is just intro, tho, as I have been lurking here for nearly a year. You two are extreme, but …it’s hawt. I wouldn’t read ya if I didn’t get off on it, yanno? Cause if there’s vanillas reading that have a problem, they can always choose to not come back!

Nilla

By: a fan

a fan — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:37:07 +0000

I love your blog

By: friscolang

friscolang — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:06:55 +0000

I look at your pictures daily and enjoy them!

By: M

Wed, 16 Sep 2009 01:33:00 +0000

Hey slavegirl,

If you don’t worship me I have to work harder. Oh that terrible briar patch.

And we only took your blog private because we were working for Dysfunctional Ltd. Virge couldn’t handle it, and all four of the Incumbent Idiots would have had a melt down. Being kinky is not going to affect my situation at Reinvented Legacy down in Cambridge, so we’re public again. I tend to regard it as a public service. We’re pushing the envelope just a bit, it costs us a bit of time, and you a bit of angst. We could serve on the conservation commission instead. This is way more fun.

We’re winning. Think back 20 years. Notice how this year, the right conceded gay marriage in order to fight ‘socialized medicine’.

By: Leesa

Leesa — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 23:04:49 +0000

Oh, Jimmy. Telling someone they don’t love their husband is hardly “a simple question”. I adore him, actually, probably even worship him.

My blog will be private or public depending on what he wants. He’s had it both ways over the years. I think the last time we were private for two years or so.

And you linked to me? Where? I haven’t a clue who links to me anymore and really should poke my nose outside my little kink bubble more, but I like it in here.

Besides, I get so little interaction from readers that it’s really easy to pretend none of y’all exist. I write for him, la la la la, and none of you click on the picture links, either.

By: Tom

Tom — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:06:26 +0000

Come on, Jimmy. Phrank and Leesa have chosen a way of living. It works for them. It doesn’t bother anyone else. They don’t do it in the streets and scare the horses.
I love reading Leesa’s blog and I respect both of them for having the courage to live the lifestyle they’ve chosen. What makes it special fun is the implied voyeurism.
If you don’t like their choices, or as in your case if you don’t understand them, accept them.
Their kink may not be your kink. But is sane and consensual and legal. They aren’t sacrificing virgins to the gods or some such thing. No one gets hurt (well, permanently, bruises don’t count).
Of course they love each other. Do you think they would put up with each other all these years if they didn’t.
Just enjoy seeing life through Leesa’s eyes. Doing so may open yours to a whole new world. You may not want to be part of that world, but you should accept their choices.

By: Fyre

Fyre — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 18:41:37 +0000

Could you stay with Phrank in your relationship if you stopped loving him? If he stopped loving you?

Why would anyone stay in a long term relationship if there wasn’t some sort of binding agent, whether it be love or rope or leather. ;}

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:15:55 +0000

Oh, and I’ll go ahead and delete my links to you and Phrank. I don’t mean to cause any consternation and am sorry if my questions did so.

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 17:06:26 +0000

I’ve followed your blog for quite some time and thought I would pose some simple questions for you. I assume that this was part of the appear of having a blog in the first place. Rather than answer them– which, of course, you’re under no obligation to do– you choose to attack and belittle me for asking them. I sound ‘vanilla’ which to you is apparently an insult. You wield the word ‘vanilla’ like a weapon. Why do ‘vanilla’ people offend you? Whether I am ‘vanilla’ or not is irrelevant. You make public your most private activities, solicit comments, then get very defensive when some come in. I was not criticizing you in any way but you appear to have taken it as such. As you know, there are simple ways to make your blog private if you choose. You can at any time exert control on who has access to it, so please don’t pretend to be upset that someone ‘vanilla’ has entered your kinky bubble. That’s what you want or you would prevent it from happening. Isn’t that true about everything in your life?